Touching These Sexy Places On His Body Will Drive Him Mad!
Don’t just start and stop at the penis to arouse your man. The penis is just the tip (haha) of the iceberg when it comes to sensation! Experiment with all these sexy places to find out which one will send your boy over the edge. Here, some ideas:
1. The Head
Remember in middle school when your friend would make you close your eyes, and they would crack an imaginary egg on your head with their fingers and it felt AH-mazing? No? Just me? Well, it felt great. (And it still does.) Probably because the top of your head is rarely touched by anything other than a hair brush as you rush out the door to start our day. Sit behind you beau and run your fingers through his scalp. If he likes that, try adding slight pressure to his scalp in small circular motions. Feel his whole body relax in your hands has you play tenderly with what holds his cranium.
2. The Third Eye
No, not the butthole. (I wouldn’t do that to you…just yet.) The Third Eye is a pressure point located in the middle of the forehead. Adding slight pressure with your thumb for 60 seconds helps relieve the tension in your partner. And, spoiler alert, tension is one of the leading causes of boner killers.
3. The Temples
While adding pressure to the Third Eye, begin massaging the temples (the sides of your forehead) by rotating your fingers in a slow, sensual, circular movement. This move also relieves tension and will allow sexual excitement to flow. Not to mention, your guy will relish the intimacy of you exploring his face.
4. The Facial Bones
Many people carry stress and tension in our heads and necks. (Thanks, day jobs.) Lay his head down in your lap and, once his neck is comfortable, start lightly tracing the angles of his face with the tips of your fingers. “Don’t just barge in there, use your fingertips to listen and sense the shape of him” advises Julie Tudor, a movement and manual therapist who specializes in pain relief therapy. A light, continuous touch will make him have an ~electric~ response.
5. The Lips
Trace your fingers lightly around your guy’s lips. Triggering the sensory nerves on his lips will release oxytocin, the “love hormone.” Which, yes, can easily lead to you getting laid. And lead you to orgasming.
6. The Neck
Feel for the small hollows in his neck. Those bad boys are erogenous zones! Add slight pressure with the tips of your fingers while making sure his head is secure. “Always make sure his head is safe and feels secure, so he can relax,” instructs Tudor.
7. The Shoulder Blades
Just like our necks, shoulders are riddled with stress. But is a hand massage enough to release that tension? “Elbows in the angel wings!” instructs Michelle Joni, massager and intuitive touch healer. “Nothing releases [the stress] quite like an elbow.” Remember not to use too much force on any bone, but rather outline the space between the bones for full satisfaction. And no, those “ahhhs” you are hearing are not orgasms, but your man is definitely getting in the mood to give you that giant “O.”
8. The Inner Thighs
You may have noticed when playing with yourself that the inner thighs can be extremely sensitive. Same goes for your guy.
9. The Torso
“The torso, tummy, and bladder area is a vulnerable region, as many are insecure about their tummy shape,” says Joni. “Nobody wants to feel like you’re grabbing their fat.” Grab some oil, if you haven’t already, and slowly move both hands down from the armpits to the chest. Move your hands in a crisscross pattern caressing their torso in broad strokes.